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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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Anaemia in Pregnancy: Signs, Tests and What Helps

Tiredness in pregnancy is expected. This is how to tell when it is something more.

By Brydee Thomas1 September 202610 min read

A cooked breakfast of eggs, bacon and beans in a pan.

Anaemia in pregnancy is common, easily missed, and genuinely worth catching early, largely because everyone expects to feel tired when pregnant and so the symptoms get waved away.

But there is a difference between ordinary pregnancy tiredness and the particular flatness of low iron. If you are breathless climbing stairs you used to manage easily, or your heart races when you stand, that is worth looking at properly rather than accepting as part of the deal.

Here is what is happening, what gets tested and when, and what genuinely helps.

Why iron demand rises so steeply in pregnancy

Your blood volume increases by roughly forty to fifty per cent during pregnancy. That is an enormous physiological undertaking, and every additional red blood cell needs iron to build.

At the same time, your baby is drawing iron from you to build their own supply. In the third trimester particularly, they lay down stores intended to last them through their first six months of life, since milk is relatively low in iron. Your body prioritises this transfer, which is generous of it and costly for you.

Add that many women enter pregnancy with modest stores already, often after years of menstruation without much attention to iron, and the arithmetic becomes clear. Requirements roughly double across pregnancy, and dietary intake rarely doubles alongside.

There is one genuine complication in interpreting all this. Your plasma volume increases faster than your red cell mass, which dilutes your blood. This is called physiological anaemia of pregnancy, and it means a modest drop in haemoglobin is entirely normal and expected rather than a problem. It is why pregnancy has its own reference ranges, and why a result that would concern a clinician outside pregnancy may be perfectly fine within it.

Anaemia in pregnancy: the symptoms worth noticing

Tiredness is the obvious one and the least useful, because everyone assumes it is just being pregnant. These are the symptoms that genuinely differentiate.

  • Breathlessness on stairs or during ordinary activity that never affected you before
  • Heart palpitations or a racing heart, particularly on standing
  • Dizziness or lightheadedness, especially standing up quickly
  • Persistent brain fog beyond ordinary pregnancy forgetfulness
  • Feeling cold when others around you are comfortable
  • Restless legs at night, which has a strong association with low iron
  • Pale skin, most noticeable inside your lower eyelids
  • Headaches
  • Unusual cravings, particularly for ice, which is called pica and is a recognised sign of iron deficiency
  • Craving non-food items such as chalk, soil or paper, which should always be mentioned

Any one alone has other explanations. Several together, particularly breathlessness and palpitations, deserve a blood test rather than reassurance.

Craving ice is worth flagging specifically, because it is so distinctive and so frequently unmentioned. Women often assume it is a quirk rather than a symptom.

What gets tested and when

In the UK you will have your haemoglobin checked routinely at two points.

At your booking appointment, usually around eight to twelve weeks, as part of your initial bloods.

At around twenty-eight weeks, timed deliberately, since this is when demand climbs steeply and there is still time to treat before birth.

You may be tested more often if you have risk factors: a multiple pregnancy, pregnancies close together, a history of anaemia, heavy periods before conceiving, a vegetarian or vegan diet, or a condition affecting absorption such as coeliac disease.

If your haemoglobin comes back below the pregnancy threshold, your midwife will usually start you on iron and recheck in a few weeks.

Bowls of red and green lentils, a good source of plant iron.

Haemoglobin and ferritin are not the same thing

This is the most useful thing in this article, so please do read it properly.

Routine antenatal bloods measure haemoglobin, the oxygen-carrying protein in your red blood cells. If haemoglobin is low, you have anaemia.

But haemoglobin falls last. Your body runs down its stored iron first, protecting circulating haemoglobin for as long as it possibly can.

Ferritin measures those stores, and ferritin can be genuinely depleted while haemoglobin still reads normal. This is precisely why so many women are told their bloods are fine while feeling dreadful. The test that would have shown the problem was not the test that was run.

Ferritin is not routinely checked in every pregnancy in every trust. If you have symptoms, or risk factors, it is entirely reasonable to ask for it specifically, and to ask for the number rather than being told it is within range.

Reference ranges are wide and the bottom end is low. Many practitioners consider ferritin below around 30 to be genuinely depleted in pregnancy, even where haemoglobin looks acceptable, since your stores are what will carry you through birth and the postpartum weeks.

One caveat worth knowing: ferritin rises with inflammation or infection, so if you are unwell when tested, the result can look falsely reassuring.

Iron-rich foods that work in pregnancy

There are two kinds of dietary iron and the difference genuinely matters.

Haem iron, from animal sources, absorbed at roughly fifteen to thirty-five per cent. Red meat is the standout, alongside poultry, sardines and other oily fish. Do note that liver, while exceptionally iron-rich, should be avoided in pregnancy because of its very high vitamin A content.

Non-haem iron, from plants, absorbed at only around two to twenty per cent, so it needs help. Lentils, chickpeas and beans, dark leafy greens, pumpkin seeds, tofu, dried apricots, and fortified breakfast cereals.

Allowing for aversions, which is the real challenge. If meat is currently impossible, and it often is, fortified cereal with orange juice, lentils blended into a soup, or dried apricots as a snack all contribute without needing you to face anything difficult. Pumpkin seeds scattered over whatever you are already eating is genuinely one of the easiest wins available.

Do not aim for perfection here. Aim for something iron-containing, most days, paired well.

Helping your body absorb it

This is where you get the most benefit for the least effort.

Pair with vitamin C. This is the big one, and it substantially increases absorption of non-haem iron. Squeeze lemon over lentils. Add peppers to a bean stew. Have fruit with a fortified cereal. Tomatoes with almost anything.

Keep tea and coffee away from iron-rich meals. The tannins significantly inhibit absorption, and the effect is substantial. Leave an hour either side. Given how much tea most of us drink, this single change can make a real difference.

Space calcium apart. Calcium competes with iron for absorption, so a large glass of milk alongside an iron-rich meal works against you.

Cook in cast iron if you have a pan, which genuinely increases iron content, particularly with acidic foods like tomato-based dishes.

If digestion is sluggish, absorption may be affected too. Our article on gut health covers this, and pregnancy constipation is common enough that it is worth reading alongside.

Iron supplements in pregnancy

If your midwife prescribes iron, a few things worth knowing.

Please do not self-prescribe high-dose iron. Excess iron is genuinely harmful and accumulates, and dosing in pregnancy should be led by your midwife or GP based on your actual bloods. A standard pregnancy multivitamin containing a modest amount is a different matter, but therapeutic doses should follow a test.

Gentler forms exist. Ferrous sulphate is commonly prescribed and commonly causes constipation and nausea, neither of which you need on top of pregnancy. Ferrous bisglycinate, sometimes sold as gentle iron, is generally far better tolerated, as are liquid preparations. If what you have been given is making you miserable, please go back and ask rather than quietly stopping.

Alternate-day dosing may work better. This surprises people. Research suggests taking iron every other day can result in better absorption than daily dosing, because a hormone called hepcidin rises after a dose and blocks absorption for a day or so afterwards. It also tends to cause fewer side effects. Worth raising with your midwife.

Take it with vitamin C and away from tea, coffee, calcium and antacids.

Expect constipation and get ahead of it. Iron is a leading cause, and pregnancy constipation is already common thanks to progesterone slowing your gut. Fibre, plenty of fluids, and asking about a stool softener early rather than waiting until it is a problem.

Why this matters for birth and recovery

This is the part most worth understanding, because it reframes iron from a pregnancy issue into a recovery one.

You will lose blood at delivery. Average loss is around 300 to 500ml for a vaginal birth and roughly double that for a caesarean. If you go into that with depleted stores, you come out considerably worse off.

Low iron at birth is associated with greater fatigue in the postpartum weeks, and the exhaustion of low iron on top of newborn sleep deprivation is genuinely punishing. There are also associations with low mood postnatally, which matters given how much else is happening at that point.

Building your stores now is one of the more useful things you can do for the woman you will be in three months. Our article on postpartum anaemia covers what happens afterwards, and reading the two together gives you the full picture.

Our guide to preparing for birth is also worth a look, since going in well-nourished and well-rested affects how the whole thing feels.

If you are vegetarian or vegan

Entirely manageable, with more deliberate attention.

Your requirements are effectively higher, since plant iron is absorbed so much less efficiently. Some guidance suggests vegetarians and vegans may need up to nearly twice the iron intake to achieve the same absorption.

Practically: make vitamin C pairing a habit rather than an occasional thing, since it matters more for you. Lean on lentils, chickpeas, tofu, fortified cereals, pumpkin seeds and dried apricots. Soaking or sprouting pulses reduces the phytates that bind minerals, which helps absorption modestly.

Ask for ferritin testing specifically, and consider asking earlier than twenty-eight weeks, since you are in a higher-risk group.

Watch B12 alongside, which is essential in pregnancy, requires supplementation on a vegan diet, and causes anaemia and exhaustion that looks identical to iron deficiency.

When to speak to your midwife

Please raise it if you have exhaustion beyond what feels reasonable, or several of the symptoms above clustering together, particularly breathlessness and palpitations.

Please seek prompt advice for breathlessness at rest rather than on exertion, fainting or near-fainting, chest pain, or a racing heart that does not settle.

And do mention it if you are craving ice or non-food items, since both are recognised signs that are frequently not volunteered.

Reduced or changed fetal movements always warrant immediate contact, regardless of anything else.

What to hold onto

Being tired in pregnancy is expected. Being breathless on the stairs is not.

If you suspect low iron, ask about ferritin as well as haemoglobin, and ask for the number. Pair your iron-rich foods with vitamin C, keep tea away from meals, and if you are prescribed supplements that make you feel dreadful, ask for a gentler form rather than stopping.

And remember that this is not only about how you feel now. It is about what you carry into birth and the weeks afterwards, which is when you will need those reserves most.

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. Iron dosing in pregnancy should be led by your midwife or GP based on your blood results, and high-dose iron should never be self-prescribed, as excess iron is harmful. Please seek prompt medical advice for breathlessness at rest, fainting, chest pain or palpitations that do not settle, and contact your maternity team immediately for reduced fetal movements.

A gentle note

If you would love support feeling genuinely well through your pregnancy, I am here. I offer warm, one-to-one pregnancy nutrition coaching alongside your midwifery care.

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Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.