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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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You Are What You Digest: A Complete Guide to Gut Health

Your gut talks to your mood, your skin and your hormones. Here is how to listen, and how to help.

By Brydee Thomas4 August 202611 min read

A woman gently holding her bare stomach, representing gut health and digestion.

There is an old naturopathic saying that has stayed with me for years: you are what you digest, what you absorb, and what you do not excrete. It sounds almost too simple to be profound, yet the more you understand your gut, the more you realise how true it is. This is a gentle guide to how to improve gut health naturally, without overwhelm and without doing everything at once.

Your gut is not just where food becomes fuel. It is home to trillions of microbes, around seventy per cent of your immune system, a network of nerves often called your second brain, and even a set of bacteria that help regulate your hormones. When your gut is happy, so much else quietly falls into place: energy, mood, skin, immunity, hormonal balance. The gut-skin link in particular is worth knowing about if you are looking for foods that genuinely help your skin. When it is not, you feel it everywhere. So let’s take a proper look at what is happening in there, and how to gently support it.

The journey of your food

Digestion is a beautiful relay. Each part of the digestive tract has its own job, and hands the baton smoothly to the next, and understanding that journey makes it much easier to see where things flow well, and where they can get stuck.

It starts, believe it or not, in your mouth. Chewing is real digestion, not just a formality before the interesting part begins. It physically breaks food down, and your saliva starts digesting carbohydrates before anything has even reached your stomach. Eating slowly, and chewing properly, genuinely sets the whole process up to succeed.

From there, food travels to your stomach, which churns it with powerful acid that kills off pathogens, unlocks minerals like iron, activates enzymes and starts breaking down protein. Good stomach acid is protective, not something to fear or suppress.

Next comes the small intestine, the real star of the show. Around ninety per cent of all nutrient absorption happens here, across a surface folded into millions of tiny finger-like villi. Enzymes from your pancreas and bile from your liver finish the job.

Whatever is left travels on to your large intestine, home to your microbiome. Here, trillions of bacteria ferment the fibre you could not digest yourself, manufacture certain vitamins, and water is reabsorbed as your stool is formed.

And quietly, behind the scenes, everything you absorb travels first to your liver, which filters and detoxifies it before it reaches the rest of your body. A constant, unglamorous guardian, working away without ever asking for credit.

When any stage of this relay is rushed or under-supported, whether that is eating on the go, low stomach acid, too little fibre or a stressed nervous system, the whole system feels the effects. The good news is that each stage also responds beautifully to a little care.

Jars of fermented food, including sauerkraut and kimchi, lined up on a shelf.

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A lovely place to begin is first thing in the morning. Squeeze half a fresh lemon into a mug of warm, not boiling, water, and sip it slowly fifteen to twenty minutes before breakfast. A gentle, hydrating ritual that many people find helps wake their digestion up before the first meal of the day arrives.

More than just digestion

Here is where it gets genuinely fascinating. Your gut is in constant conversation with the rest of your body, and three particular connections matter most, each one linking to other parts of your wellbeing you may already be thinking about.

The first is the gut-immune connection. Around seventy per cent of your immune system lives in the wall of your gut, which makes sense: the gut is where the outside world, your food, meets the inside of your body, so it is constantly meeting and learning from microbes. Your gut lining and its bacteria form a crucial first line of defence, which is exactly why looking after your gut is one of the most powerful things you can do for your immunity.

The second is the gut-brain connection, and this one tends to surprise people. Your gut contains around one hundred million nerve cells, a network so rich it is nicknamed the second brain, wired directly to your actual brain. Digestion runs best in rest and digest mode; under stress, the body dials digestion down. Remarkably, around ninety per cent of your body’s serotonin, a key mood chemical, is made in the gut, and your microbes help produce the building blocks for it. A calmer nervous system and a well-fed gut genuinely support a steadier mood.

And the third connection links straight back to your cycle: the gut-hormone connection. A specialised group of gut bacteria, known as the estrobolome, helps regulate oestrogen. After your liver processes used oestrogen and sends it to the gut to be cleared, these bacteria influence how much is escorted out versus reactivated and sent back into circulation. When the gut is balanced, this runs smoothly; when sluggish or imbalanced, for example after antibiotics or with constipation, used hormones can be reabsorbed rather than cleared. A healthy gut is quietly part of hormone balance.

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A calming ginger and fennel tea supports this whole conversation between systems. Steep a few slices of fresh ginger and a teaspoon of lightly crushed fennel seeds in just-boiled water for five to seven minutes, covered. Sipped slowly after a meal, it is soothing for digestion and a beautiful cue for your body to drop into that rest and digest mode.

Meet your microbiome

Your large intestine is home to more than one hundred trillion bacteria, collectively your microbiome. Far from being passive passengers, they finish extracting nutrients, manufacture certain vitamins, crowd out troublesome bacteria and train your immune system. A diverse, well-fed microbiome is one of the strongest foundations of good health, and the single biggest lever you have over it is what you eat.

There are three groups of foods worth knowing here. Probiotics are the bacteria themselves, live cultures in fermented foods like yoghurt with live cultures, kefir, sauerkraut, kimchi, miso and tempeh. A little, often, is the way in. Prebiotics are the special fibres that feed your good microbes, found in garlic, onions, leeks, Jerusalem artichokes, oats, slightly-cooled cooked potato, bananas, apples and legumes. And polyphenols are the bonus fuel, colourful plant compounds your microbes love, found in berries, herbs and spices, olive oil, green tea and a little dark chocolate.

But if there is one golden rule that matters more than any single food, it is diversity. Different microbes eat different fibres, so the more varied your plants, the more resilient your microbiome. The American Gut Project, one of the largest microbiome studies ever conducted, found the single strongest predictor of a healthy, diverse gut was not any supplement or superfood, but simply the number of different plant foods eaten weekly, with thirty or more the sweet spot. Plants count widely: vegetables, fruit, wholegrains, legumes, nuts, seeds, herbs and spices all add to your tally.

Aiming for thirty or more different plants a week is a target, not a test, and variety matters more than any single food. Most of us fall short of the roughly thirty grams of fibre a day that supports the gut, so wholegrains, legumes, fruit and vegetables all help gently. Little wins add up too: a sprinkle of mixed seeds, a handful of herbs, a different vegetable in the trolley each week. And go slowly if increasing from a lower baseline, building up with plenty of water, as a sudden jump can cause bloating while your gut adjusts.

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A green chlorophyll smoothie puts all of this into practice in one glass. Blend a big handful of spinach and kale with fifty grams of pineapple, half an avocado, a ten-centimetre piece of cucumber and three hundred millilitres of coconut water until smooth. Fresh, hydrating and packed with gut-loving greens.

When you care for your gut, you are caring for so much more than digestion.

Signs your gut needs a little love

Your gut is good at telling you when something is off. The trick is learning to listen. Here are the most common signals, and the gentle, food-first responses that tend to help.

Bloating and wind often respond well to slowing down and chewing thoroughly, keeping meals unrushed, and going gently on very large or processed meals. Ginger, fennel and peppermint teas can soothe, and building fibre up gradually helps too. Constipation usually benefits from more fibre from wholegrains, fruit, vegetables and legumes, plenty of water, movement, and natural helpers like prunes, figs, flaxseeds and magnesium-rich foods. This is exactly why magnesium is so often low, even when your diet is good. A sluggish bowel is worth nudging, as it also affects hormone clearance.

Sluggish or stressed digestion often comes back to the brain-gut link. Eating away from screens and stress, a few slow breaths before eating, and calm, unrushed meals all invite that rest and digest state.

Reflux or heartburn tends to respond to smaller meals, finishing eating three to four hours before bed, not lying down straight after eating, and drinking between rather than during meals. Easing off coffee, alcohol and rich food often helps.

Reacting to certain foods is worth approaching gently, noticing patterns rather than cutting many things at once. Common triggers include dairy and gluten-containing grains, but a calm, tracked trial beats a dramatic overhaul.

Running beneath all of these is one recurring theme: stress is a genuine digestive factor, not all in your head. Because the gut and nervous system are so wired together, calming your nervous system is one of the most underrated ways to help digestion.

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If digestion feels genuinely irritated, a soothing slippery elm cup can help. Whisk a teaspoon of slippery elm powder into a mug of warm water or your milk of choice with a little cinnamon until smooth. Traditionally used to coat and soothe the gut lining, it is a gentle, comforting drink for the days digestion feels tender. Just take it separately from any medications, as it can slow their absorption.

How to love your gut, day to day

You do not need a complicated protocol, just a handful of steady habits that, repeated, transform how your gut feels over time.

Chew, and slow down. Digestion begins in the mouth and works best when you are calm, so chewing thoroughly and eating away from stress lets your body drop into rest and digest, arguably the highest-impact, lowest-cost habit here.

Eat the rainbow, aiming for thirty or more different plants a week. Different veg, fruit, wholegrains, legumes, nuts, seeds, herbs and spices all count.

Build fibre gently, working towards around thirty grams a day from whole foods, increasing slowly with plenty of water.

Add a little fermented food, often. A spoon of sauerkraut, a small glass of kefir, live yoghurt, miso or kimchi, in small regular amounts, helps diversify your microbiome.

Include prebiotic foods. Garlic, onions, leeks, oats, apples, slightly-cooled potato and legumes feed your good bacteria.

Hydrate and move. Water keeps things moving; gentle daily movement, even a walk, stimulates the muscular waves that carry food through the gut.

Tend to stress and sleep. Because of the gut-brain link, calming your nervous system and sleeping well are genuine digestive support, not extras.

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A gut-loving rainbow bowl draws all of these threads together. Build a bowl of wholegrain, quinoa or brown rice work beautifully, with a rainbow of roasted and raw vegetables, a legume like chickpeas or beans, a scatter of mixed seeds, some fresh herbs, and a spoon of sauerkraut or kimchi on the side. Dress it with olive oil and lemon. Fibre, plant diversity, prebiotics, polyphenols and a probiotic, all in a single meal.

A gentle reminder

Your gut is remarkably responsive. It is renewing and rebalancing itself all the time, which means small, consistent kindnesses genuinely add up.

You do not need to overhaul everything or eat perfectly. A little more variety, a little more fibre, a few calm meals, a spoon of something fermented: these are the quiet habits that change how your gut, and therefore how you, feel over the weeks and months.

And remember how connected it all is. A happier gut supports steadier energy, calmer mood, stronger immunity and more balanced hormones. When you care for your gut, you are caring for so much more than digestion.

A gentle note

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. It does not replace the care of your GP or a qualified practitioner, and is not a treatment for any condition. Please seek medical advice for persistent pain, a change in bowel habits, blood in the stool, unexplained weight loss, difficulty swallowing, or anything new, one-sided or worsening, and speak to a professional before making changes if you are pregnant, breastfeeding, on medication or managing a health condition.

If you would love some personalised support figuring out what your gut is trying to tell you, I would love to help. I offer warm, one-to-one gut health and nutrition coaching, made for your real life. Book a free call
Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.