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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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PCOS and Fertility: A Gentle, Practical Starting Point

PCOS and fertility without the overwhelm: what actually helps with cycles, blood sugar and conceiving.

By Brydee Thomas17 August 20269 min read

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If you have been diagnosed with PCOS and you are hoping to have a baby, you have probably already been handed a great deal of frightening information and not much practical help. You may have been told your cycles are irregular, that you might struggle, possibly that you should lose weight, and then sent away to get on with it.

So let me offer something different: a clear explanation of what is actually happening in your body, what genuinely helps, and what the evidence says about conceiving with PCOS. Because the honest headline is that most women with PCOS do go on to conceive, and there is a great deal you can do to support that.

A note on the name

You may have seen something about this recently. In May 2026, following an international consensus process published in The Lancet, PCOS was formally renamed PMOS, which stands for polyendocrine metabolic ovarian syndrome.

The reasoning is genuinely sound. The old name centred on ovarian cysts, which are not actually cysts at all, they are immature follicles, and which are not even required for a diagnosis. That framing hid the fact that this is a whole-body condition involving insulin, androgens and metabolic health, not simply an ovarian problem. The new name reflects what is really going on.

Both names will be in use for some time, with the formal coding update expected in 2028. I will use PCOS through this article since it is still the term most of us know, but it is worth knowing the change is coming.

What is actually happening in your body

PCOS is diagnosed using what are called the Rotterdam criteria, which require at least two of these three features: irregular or absent ovulation, elevated androgens (either on a blood test or through symptoms like acne and unwanted hair growth), and a particular appearance of the ovaries on ultrasound.

Notice that you can be diagnosed without ever having the ovarian appearance, which is exactly why the old name was so misleading.

Here is the chain of events that matters most for fertility. Many women with PCOS have some degree of insulin resistance, meaning their cells respond less readily to insulin, so the body produces more of it to compensate. This happens regardless of body size; lean women with PCOS can be just as insulin resistant as anyone else.

That excess insulin then does something specific: it stimulates the ovaries to produce more androgens, including testosterone. Elevated androgens interfere with the normal maturation of follicles, so instead of one follicle developing fully and releasing an egg, several start and stall. Ovulation becomes irregular or stops altogether.

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This is genuinely good news, once you see it. It means the problem is not usually your ovaries being broken. It is a signalling problem driven substantially by insulin, and insulin is something you can influence.

Why fertility is affected, and why it is not hopeless

The main reason PCOS affects fertility is straightforward: if you ovulate less often, you have fewer opportunities to conceive each year. Someone ovulating monthly has twelve chances. Someone ovulating four times a year has four. That is a real difference, but it is a difference in frequency rather than an inability.

Current evidence suggests women with PCOS generally have good ovarian reserve, often better than average in terms of egg quantity, though there may be some reduction in egg quality related to the metabolic environment. Again, that environment is something you can work on.

Most women with PCOS who want to conceive do so, whether naturally, with lifestyle support, or with medical assistance. The path may take longer and may involve more help, but the outlook is genuinely more hopeful than the internet often suggests.

The single most useful thing you can do

If you take one thing from this article, let it be this: steadying your blood sugar is the foundation of everything else in PCOS.

Because insulin drives androgens, and androgens disrupt ovulation, anything that improves insulin sensitivity works upstream of the whole problem. This is not a fringe idea; it is the mechanism the entire condition runs on.

A landmark study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition found that women with PCOS following a low-glycaemic diet for twelve weeks experienced a sixty-seven per cent improvement in menstrual regularity. That is a substantial change from food alone.

What this looks like practically is not a restrictive diet, and I want to be clear about that, because women with PCOS are told to restrict constantly and it does real harm.

Build every meal around protein, fibre and healthy fat. These slow glucose entry into the bloodstream, which flattens the insulin response. A carbohydrate eaten alone spikes; the same carbohydrate eaten alongside protein and fat does not.

Eat your vegetables before your carbohydrates. Food order genuinely matters, and eating vegetables first, then protein, then carbohydrates last can reduce post-meal glucose spikes by thirty to fifty per cent. You change nothing about what you eat, only the sequence.

Do not skip meals. Long gaps drop blood sugar, which triggers cortisol, which raises blood sugar again and worsens insulin resistance over time. Eating regularly is genuinely part of managing this.

Move after eating. A ten to fifteen minute walk after a meal significantly reduces the post-meal glucose rise, because your muscles use glucose during movement.

Build muscle. Resistance training improves insulin sensitivity meaningfully and lastingly, since muscle is where most glucose is taken up. This matters more than cardio for PCOS specifically.

Supplements worth knowing about

Inositol is the one with the most evidence behind it, and it is worth understanding properly. Inositol is a naturally occurring compound involved in insulin signalling, found in fruits, grains and nuts.

The research is genuinely encouraging. A systematic review informing the 2023 international PCOS guidelines examined thirty trials, and a 2026 umbrella review in Frontiers in Endocrinology pooled thirteen reviews built from randomised controlled trials. On the strongest evidence, women taking inositol were more than twice as likely to ovulate compared with placebo, with lower testosterone and improved pregnancy rates.

Several trials found myo-inositol at four grams daily, combined with folic acid, produced ovulation and pregnancy rates comparable to metformin, with considerably fewer digestive side effects. The commonly used form is myo-inositol and D-chiro-inositol in a forty to one ratio, which mirrors the body’s natural plasma ratio.

That said, researchers are clear the evidence is not fully settled and more robust trials are needed. It is a promising, low-risk option rather than a guaranteed solution. Most people see effects within twelve to twenty-four weeks, so give it three months before judging.

Vitamin D is worth testing, since deficiency is very common in PCOS and supplementation appears to support both insulin sensitivity and follicle development.

CoQ10 supports the mitochondrial function of developing eggs, which is relevant given the egg quality question.

Omega-3 supports the inflammatory picture that often accompanies insulin resistance.

Please do discuss any supplement with your GP, particularly if you are on medication, and treat supplements as support alongside the food and movement foundations rather than instead of them.

The parts nobody mentions

Sleep. Poor sleep worsens insulin resistance measurably, sometimes within days. Sleep apnoea is also more common in PCOS and frequently undiagnosed, so if you snore heavily or wake unrefreshed, that is worth mentioning to your GP.

Stress. Cortisol raises blood sugar directly, which feeds the insulin problem. This is not about relaxing on command, it is about eating regularly, sleeping, and reducing genuine load where you can.

Mental health. Rates of anxiety and depression are meaningfully higher in PCOS, and this is under-recognised. It is not a character weakness or a failure to cope; it is part of the condition’s picture, partly hormonal and partly the sheer weight of managing it. It deserves support in its own right.

The weight conversation. Many women with PCOS are told to lose weight and given nothing else. I want to be careful here. Improving insulin sensitivity does help ovulation, and for some women body composition is part of that. But PCOS makes weight loss genuinely harder, the advice is often delivered without support, and lean women with PCOS have the same underlying insulin problem while being told they are fine. Focus on the behaviours that improve insulin sensitivity, eating pattern, movement, sleep, rather than a number on a scale. The metabolic improvements happen regardless of whether your weight changes much.

Medical options, so you know what exists

If you have been trying for a year, or six months if you are thirty-six or older, or if your cycles are very irregular or absent, please do ask your GP for a referral rather than waiting.

Letrozole is now considered first-line for ovulation induction in PCOS, and evidence shows it produces better live birth rates than clomiphene, which was the older standard. Worth knowing, because some practices still reach for clomiphene first.

Metformin improves insulin sensitivity and can help restore ovulation, particularly where insulin resistance is significant.

Gonadotropins and IVF are options where earlier approaches have not worked, and IVF outcomes in PCOS are generally very good with modern protocols.

None of this means failure. Ovulation induction is a common, effective intervention, and needing it says nothing about you.

Where to start this week

If all of this feels like a lot, start with one thing. Add protein to your breakfast, since a carbohydrate-only breakfast sets up the whole day’s blood sugar pattern. Walk for ten minutes after your evening meal. Get to bed half an hour earlier.

Then track your cycles, so you have real information about whether and when you are ovulating, rather than guessing. Basal body temperature, cervical mucus, or ovulation tests, though be aware that PCOS can produce multiple LH surges, so tests alone can be misleading and pairing them with temperature is more reliable.

Give any change three months before judging it. Follicles take around ninety days to develop, so you are working on cycles you will not see the results of for a while. That is frustrating, and it is also why patience matters so much here.

You are not broken, your body is not failing you, and this is one of the more responsive conditions there is when it comes to the things you can actually influence.

A gentle note

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. If you have PCOS, or suspect you might, please work with your GP or a specialist. If you have been trying to conceive for over a year, or over six months if you are 36 or older, or if your cycles are very irregular or absent, please ask for a referral rather than waiting.

If you would love practical, judgement-free support building this into your real life, I am here. I offer warm, one-to-one fertility and nutrition coaching, with no restriction and no lectures.

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Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.