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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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Blood Sugar Balance: The Quiet Foundation of Energy, Mood and Hormones

The quiet foundation beneath your energy, mood and hormones, and how to gently steady it.

By Brydee Thomas4 August 202611 min read

A bowl of oats topped with seeds and fresh fruit.

Blood sugar balance is one of the most foundational levers in women’s health, and one of the least talked about. It sits quietly beneath your energy, mood, cravings, skin, hormonal balance, sleep and concentration. When it is steady, so much else feels easier. When it swings, everything else seems to suffer along with it.

This is not about counting carbohydrates or following a strict protocol. It is about how to balance blood sugar naturally, understanding what is happening inside your body, and making small, consistent choices that keep you steady. Let’s start at the beginning.

What blood sugar actually is

Understanding the basics of how blood sugar works makes every food choice feel a little less arbitrary and a lot more empowering. Every carbohydrate you eat is broken down into glucose, a simple sugar that enters your bloodstream and becomes the primary fuel for your brain and your cells. Your brain alone uses around twenty per cent of your total energy supply and runs almost exclusively on glucose. You genuinely need it. The goal is never to avoid glucose entirely, but to keep it flowing in a steady, manageable stream, rather than in dramatic spikes and crashes.

Here is the mechanism behind that steadiness. When blood sugar rises after a meal, your pancreas releases insulin, which helps cells absorb glucose for energy and signals the liver and muscles to store any excess. When blood sugar falls too low, between meals, during exercise, or after skipping a meal, your pancreas releases glucagon instead, signalling stored glucose back into the blood. This see-saw is constantly at work, keeping blood sugar in a healthy range without you ever having to think about it.

Problems begin when that see-saw swings too wildly, too often. Large amounts of refined carbohydrates and sugar cause a rapid glucose spike, triggering a large insulin response. Blood sugar can then drop sharply, sometimes below where it started, leaving you tired, irritable, foggy and craving more sugar to fix the very problem the last lot caused. Over time, frequent large spikes mean insulin receptors become less responsive, a process called insulin resistance, linked to type 2 diabetes, PCOS and hormonal imbalance. In pregnancy the same mechanism is what drives gestational diabetes. This is the pattern worth interrupting, gently.

A person preparing bowls of oats with blueberries, whisking them in the kitchen.

There is a cortisol connection worth understanding too. Low blood sugar is, physiologically, a form of stress. When glucose drops, your body releases cortisol to raise it again. This is why skipping meals or relying on sugary snacks creates a cycle of energy crashes and cortisol spikes that can disrupt sleep, worsen anxiety and leave you feeling wired and exhausted at once. Eating regularly is not overindulgence. It is stress management.

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A steady-start breakfast bowl puts this into practice straight away. Cook fifty grams of oats with two hundred and fifty millilitres of oat milk for four to five minutes, then top with a tablespoon of almond butter, a handful of blueberries and a sprinkle of pumpkin seeds. The oats provide slow-release glucose, the almond butter and seeds add fat and protein to slow absorption further, and the blueberries bring antioxidants.

Eating regularly is not overindulgence. It is stress management.

Foods that steady blood sugar

Both the NHS and the British Dietetic Association recommend the same food-first approach: fibre-rich foods, complex carbohydrates, protein and healthy fats at every meal.

Protein is doing most of the heavy lifting in that pairing. Protein for women sets out how much you actually need across your cycle, pregnancy and postpartum.

Wholegrains give you slow-release energy. Oats, brown rice, quinoa, rye and barley all release glucose slowly, and oats specifically contain beta-glucan, confirmed by the European Food Safety Authority to help reduce post-meal blood sugar rises. Legumes bring fibre and protein together, so lentils, chickpeas, kidney beans and butter beans combine fibre with protein to flatten your glucose curve, and studies consistently show regular legume consumption improves glycaemic control.

Protein at every meal is the real anchor. It slows gastric emptying, which slows how quickly glucose enters your bloodstream. Eggs, fish, chicken, tofu, yoghurt, lentils and nuts all help here, and a carbohydrate meal with protein alongside it is far steadier than the same meal without. Healthy fats provide the slow-down too, since fat also slows glucose absorption, so avocado, olive oil, nuts, seeds and oily fish all lower the glycaemic impact of whatever carbohydrates you eat alongside them.

Non-starchy vegetables put fibre first. Leafy greens, broccoli, peppers, courgette and salad leaves are low in glucose and high in fibre, and eating them before your carbohydrates significantly reduces post-meal spikes. And cinnamon is genuinely the spice that helps, with true Ceylon cinnamon supporting healthy insulin sensitivity when stirred into porridge or smoothies. A small, consistent habit with a real effect.

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A blood sugar balance lunch bowl draws all of this together. Build it with a base of cooked quinoa or brown rice, a generous scoop of tinned lentils or chickpeas, roasted vegetables like peppers, courgette and sweet potato, a handful of spinach, sliced avocado and a drizzle of tahini and lemon. Fibre, protein, healthy fat and complex carbohydrates, all in one bowl.

Simple habits that make a real difference

Beyond what you eat, how and when you eat matters enormously too. These evidence-backed habits are all free, practical and significantly effective at steadying blood sugar, without any dietary restriction whatsoever.

Eat vegetables and protein before carbohydrates. Food order is one of the most powerful, least-known blood sugar tools: vegetables first, then protein, then carbohydrates last can reduce post-meal glucose spikes by thirty to fifty per cent. You do not need to change what you eat, just the order.

Move after meals. A gentle ten to fifteen minute walk after eating significantly reduces the post-meal glucose rise, as your muscles use glucose during movement. Even light tidying or stretching helps if a walk is not possible.

Never skip breakfast. Skipping it creates a long glucose gap, so when you eventually eat, the spike is larger and the crash steeper. Even a small, balanced breakfast anchors your blood sugar for the whole day.

Eat every three to four hours. This prevents blood sugar dropping into the range where cortisol gets triggered. Mid-afternoon irritability, fog or sugar cravings are almost always a blood-sugar story, and the fix is eating more regularly, not less. Make snacks real. A pure carbohydrate snack, a biscuit or fruit alone, spikes and drops quickly, whereas one combining protein, fat and fibre, apple with nut butter or yoghurt with seeds, is genuinely steadying.

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A protein-first afternoon snack plate is a lovely example. Arrange a small plate with a handful of mixed nuts, two squares of dark chocolate, a few medjool dates and a small pot of Greek yoghurt. Eat the nuts and yoghurt first, the dates and chocolate after. Protein and fat land first, slowing the absorption of the natural sugars in the dates.

Blood sugar and your hormones

Blood sugar and hormones are deeply intertwined, and understanding this connection explains so much about cravings, mood, skin, cycle symptoms and energy patterns that might otherwise feel entirely random or mysterious.

There is a real insulin-androgen link worth knowing. When insulin is frequently elevated, from a high-sugar, high-refined-carbohydrate diet, it stimulates the ovaries to produce more androgens, the male hormones including testosterone. Elevated androgens drive acne, body hair and irregular cycles, and are a central feature of PCOS. This matters even more if you are managing PCOS. Steadying blood sugar is one of the most important lifestyle interventions for hormone balance and skin, not just energy.

There is also a luteal phase connection. In the second half of your cycle, days fifteen to twenty-eight, insulin sensitivity naturally decreases under progesterone. Blood sugar swings more easily, cravings intensify, and the effects of glucose crashes are amplified. The food response stays the same but matters even more: protein and fat at every meal, no long gaps, complex carbohydrates rather than refined, and magnesium-rich foods like pumpkin seeds, dark chocolate and spinach to support mood. Magnesium often makes a noticeable difference here too.

Thyroid hormones matter too, controlling the rate at which cells use glucose. An underactive thyroid can slow glucose metabolism and worsen blood sugar instability, so if fatigue, weight changes and blood sugar symptoms coexist, it is worth asking your GP for a thyroid panel. And chronic stress keeps cortisol elevated, which raises blood sugar throughout the day, even from psychological stressors. Managing stress through breathwork, sleep and nourishment genuinely is blood sugar management. These things are not separate.

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A luteal-phase steady dinner is exactly what that half of the month asks for. Simmer a can of chickpeas and a can of chopped tomatoes with onion, garlic, cumin and a pinch of cinnamon for twenty minutes, then stir through a large handful of spinach. Serve over brown rice with a spoon of natural yoghurt. Warming, steady and genuinely nourishing.

What a blood-sugar-steady day looks like

This is not a meal plan. It is simply an illustration of what balanced eating looks and feels like in practice: regular, nourishing and genuinely satisfying, never restrictive.

In the morning, eat within an hour of waking. Porridge with nuts and seeds, eggs on wholegrain toast with avocado, or Greek yoghurt with berries and a tablespoon of nut butter all work beautifully. A protein or fat element at breakfast is genuinely non-negotiable for steady morning energy, and it is worth drinking water before and with breakfast, avoiding fruit juice alone or a sugary cereal as your first food of the day.

Mid-morning, if you had breakfast early, have a small snack before hunger really builds, a handful of nuts, oatcakes with nut butter, or a small pot of yoghurt, which prevents the pre-lunch crash that leads to grabbing something quick and sugary out of desperation. At lunch, build your plate as the NHS recommends: half non-starchy vegetables, a quarter lean protein, a quarter complex carbohydrates. A lentil soup, a grain bowl with chickpeas, or a salad with eggs or fish and wholegrain bread, all fit beautifully, and eating your vegetables first if you can makes a real difference.

In the afternoon, this is when blood sugar often drops for the first time in the day, so have a planned snack rather than waiting for the crash to hit: apple with almond butter, hummus with veggie sticks, or a small handful of dates and nuts. A short walk after lunch prevents the post-lunch slump significantly. And in the evening, aim for a balanced dinner with protein, plenty of vegetables and moderate complex carbohydrates, avoiding a large carbohydrate-heavy meal late at night, as insulin sensitivity is naturally lower after dark. If you need something after dinner, a small amount of protein or fat, a handful of nuts or a spoon of nut butter, steadies overnight blood sugar far better than something sweet would.

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Cinnamon and almond banana bites are a lovely way to end the day. Slice a banana into rounds, spread each slice with a small amount of almond butter and dust with cinnamon. The banana provides natural sugars, the almond butter provides fat and protein that slow absorption, and the cinnamon supports insulin sensitivity. Sweet, satisfying, and genuinely steady.

You do not have to be perfect to feel the difference

Blood sugar balance is not about eliminating sugar or following a restrictive plan. It is about understanding how glucose works in your body and making small, consistent choices that keep you steady: a protein element at every meal, vegetables before carbohydrates when you can, a walk after lunch when possible, and eating regularly enough that cortisol never has to step in and rescue the situation.

Start with just one habit. Perhaps it is adding almond butter to your morning oats. Perhaps it is a ten-minute walk after dinner. Small, repeatable changes compound into genuinely different energy, mood and hormonal balance over the coming weeks. You will feel it, and that feeling is entirely worth having.

A gentle note

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. If you have been diagnosed with diabetes, pre-diabetes, PCOS, gestational diabetes or any condition affecting blood sugar, please follow the personalised guidance of your GP, specialist or registered dietitian. Do not change any medication without medical advice. Please speak to your GP if you experience persistent symptoms of high or low blood sugar, unexplained fatigue, or if you are pregnant or breastfeeding.

If you would love some personalised support steadying your blood sugar and feeling more like yourself, I would love to help. I offer warm, one-to-one nutrition coaching, made for your real life. Book a free call
Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.