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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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Gestational Diabetes: What to Eat and What Genuinely Helps

A diagnosis is not a failing. Here is what it means, what actually helps, and how to eat well.

By Brydee Thomas25 August 20269 min read

A balanced plate of vegetables, beans and protein on a wooden board.

Being told you have gestational diabetes usually comes with a leaflet, a blood glucose monitor and a great deal of anxiety. And very often, an unspoken sense that you must have done something to cause it.

So let me start there: you did not. Gestational diabetes is caused by pregnancy hormones interfering with how your insulin works. It happens to women of every size, every diet and every level of fitness. A gestational diabetes diet is the main tool for managing it, and the good news is that most women manage it beautifully with food and movement alone.

Here is what is actually happening, what to eat, and what genuinely makes a difference.

What gestational diabetes actually is

During pregnancy, your placenta produces hormones that make your cells less responsive to insulin. This is entirely deliberate: it keeps more glucose circulating in your blood so that your baby has a steady supply.

For most women, the pancreas simply produces extra insulin to compensate. Gestational diabetes develops when it cannot quite keep up with that increased demand, so blood sugar levels rise higher than they should.

Notice what that means. It is not a failure of willpower or diet. It is a mismatch between insulin demand and insulin supply, driven by the placenta. It affects around one in twenty pregnancies in the UK, and it typically appears in the second or third trimester, which is precisely when placental hormone production peaks.

It usually resolves after birth, once the placenta is delivered and those hormones disappear.

How it is diagnosed

In the UK you will be offered an oral glucose tolerance test, usually between twenty-four and twenty-eight weeks, if you have any risk factors. These include a previous baby weighing four and a half kilograms or more, previous gestational diabetes, a parent or sibling with diabetes, a BMI over thirty, or a South Asian, Black, African-Caribbean or Middle Eastern family background.

If you had gestational diabetes in a previous pregnancy, you will usually be offered testing much earlier, often from around sixteen weeks, since the chance of it recurring is high.

The test itself involves fasting overnight, having a blood sample taken, drinking a glucose drink, then having a second sample two hours later. It is tedious rather than difficult, though the drink is unpleasant and the fasting is miserable when you are pregnant.

Gestational diabetes often causes no symptoms at all, which is exactly why routine screening exists. Some women notice increased thirst, needing to urinate more, or unusual tiredness, though all three are so common in ordinary pregnancy that they rarely stand out.

The gestational diabetes diet, simply

This is where most women feel overwhelmed, so let me make it as clear as I can. You are not aiming for a restrictive diet. You are aiming to spread carbohydrate across the day and always pair it with something that slows it down.

Build every meal around protein, fat and fibre alongside your carbohydrate. Protein slows how quickly glucose enters your bloodstream. Fat does the same. Fibre slows digestion overall. A carbohydrate eaten alone spikes; the same carbohydrate eaten with protein and fat behaves very differently.

Spread carbohydrate across the day rather than concentrating it. UK dietetic guidance typically suggests something like fifteen to twenty grams at breakfast, with larger amounts at lunch and dinner, plus small snacks between. Your dietitian will give you specific numbers for you, and those matter more than any general advice.

Choose slower carbohydrates. Oats, wholegrain bread, brown rice, quinoa, sweet potato and legumes release glucose more gradually than white bread, sugary cereals, fruit juice and confectionery.

Breakfast is usually the hardest meal. Insulin resistance is naturally highest first thing in the morning, thanks to the overnight rise in cortisol and placental hormones. Most women find breakfast readings the most stubborn. This is normal and not a sign you are doing it wrong. Lower-carbohydrate, higher-protein breakfasts, eggs, full-fat yoghurt with nuts, avocado on a small slice of wholegrain toast, generally work far better than cereal or toast alone.

Avocado and boiled egg on wholegrain toast.

The trick almost nobody mentions

Food order genuinely matters, and it is one of the most useful and least-known tools available to you.

Eating your vegetables first, then your protein, then your carbohydrate last, can reduce the glucose rise after a meal by around thirty to fifty per cent. You do not change what you eat at all. You simply change the sequence.

This works because the fibre and protein arriving first physically slow the absorption of the carbohydrate that follows. It costs nothing, requires no restriction, and can be the difference between a reading in target and one just above it.

Our article on blood sugar balance goes into this mechanism in more depth, and everything in it applies here, simply with tighter targets.

Movement, which is genuinely powerful

A ten to fifteen minute walk after each meal is one of the most effective things you can do, and it is frequently underused.

Your muscles take up glucose from your blood during movement, without needing insulin to do it. So walking after eating directly lowers the post-meal rise. Many women find a short walk after dinner turns a borderline reading into a comfortable one.

NHS guidance generally suggests aiming for around one hundred and fifty minutes of moderate activity a week in pregnancy, alongside some strength work. But for blood sugar specifically, the timing matters as much as the total: shorter walks after meals beat one long walk at a different time of day.

Swimming, prenatal yoga and gentle strength work are all suitable. Do check with your midwife about anything new, particularly in later pregnancy.

Testing, and what the numbers mean

You will be given a monitor and asked to test several times daily, typically fasting first thing, then one hour after each meal.

Your team will give you your specific targets, as these vary slightly between trusts. The important thing is what you do with a reading that comes back high.

Do not panic at a single number. One elevated reading is information, not failure. Look at what you ate, whether you moved afterwards, how you slept, and whether you were stressed or unwell, since all of these affect glucose.

Look for patterns rather than individual results. If breakfast is consistently high, that meal needs adjusting. If one reading was high after an unusual meal, that is simply useful learning.

Keep notes alongside your readings. Recording what you ate makes the patterns obvious and makes your appointments far more productive.

Do not restrict to chase numbers. This is genuinely important. Some women, understandably frightened by high readings, start cutting carbohydrate drastically or skipping meals. This is counterproductive and can be harmful in pregnancy, since your baby needs steady energy and you need adequate nutrition. If your readings are consistently high despite eating well, that means you need medical support, not more restriction.

If food is not enough

Around a third of women with gestational diabetes need medication, and I want to be clear about this: needing medication is not a failure.

It reflects how much your placenta is interfering with your insulin, which is entirely outside your control and often has very little to do with how carefully you are eating. Some women do everything perfectly and still need insulin, particularly later in pregnancy as placental hormone production peaks.

Metformin is often offered first, taken as tablets, and it improves how your body responds to insulin.

Insulin may be offered if metformin is not enough, or straight away if your levels are high at diagnosis. It is given by injection, it does not cross the placenta, and it is safe in pregnancy.

Both are temporary and usually stop immediately after birth.

What it means for your birth

Well-managed gestational diabetes generally means a straightforward pregnancy, though you will be monitored more closely, with extra growth scans to check your baby’s size.

You will likely be advised to give birth by around forty weeks and six days, with induction offered if you have not gone into labour by then, since the risks associated with gestational diabetes increase towards the end of pregnancy. If you have complications or need insulin, birth may be recommended earlier.

Your blood sugar will be monitored during labour, and your baby’s will be checked in the hours after birth, since babies can have a temporary dip once the extra glucose supply stops. This is expected and managed routinely.

Our article on preparing for birth covers the wider practical and emotional preparation, all of which still applies.

After the birth

Gestational diabetes usually resolves as soon as the placenta is delivered, and most women stop all medication and monitoring straight away.

You will be offered a blood test around six to thirteen weeks after birth to confirm your levels have returned to normal, and then annual testing thereafter.

That annual test matters, because having had gestational diabetes carries a meaningfully increased chance of developing type 2 diabetes later, with estimates around fifty per cent over the following years. That sounds alarming, but it is genuinely actionable information: the same eating patterns and movement habits that managed your pregnancy substantially reduce that risk.

There is also a higher chance of gestational diabetes recurring in a future pregnancy, so mention it early at your booking appointment next time.

If insulin resistance is part of your wider picture, our article on PCOS and fertility covers the same underlying mechanism from a different angle.

When to contact your team

Please contact your maternity or diabetes team if your readings are consistently above target despite following your plan, if you are struggling to eat or keep food down, if you notice reduced fetal movements, which always warrants immediate contact regardless of diabetes, or if you feel unwell, unusually thirsty or drowsy.

What to hold onto

A gestational diabetes diagnosis feels frightening, and the monitoring is genuinely tiring. But this is one of the more manageable conditions in pregnancy, and the things that help are simple: pair your carbohydrates with protein and fat, spread them across the day, eat your vegetables first, and walk after meals.

Most women manage it well, have healthy babies, and find it resolves entirely after birth. And what you learn about how food affects your body tends to be genuinely useful long after the pregnancy ends.

A gentle note

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. If you have gestational diabetes, please follow the personalised guidance of your midwife, diabetes team and dietitian, and never adjust prescribed medication without medical advice. Contact your maternity team immediately for reduced fetal movements, and if readings remain above target or you feel unwell.

If you would love realistic, judgement-free support eating well through your pregnancy, I am here. I offer warm, one-to-one pregnancy nutrition coaching alongside your medical care.

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Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.