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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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Heartburn in Pregnancy: Why It Happens and What Helps

Burning, bloating and not being able to lie down. Here is what actually helps.

By Brydee Thomas1 September 20269 min read

A bed with pillows propped up in a softly lit bedroom.

Heartburn in pregnancy affects the majority of women, and it is treated as one of those minor inconveniences you are simply meant to put up with. Which is easy to say when you are not the one lying awake at two in the morning with a burning chest, propped on four pillows, unable to get comfortable in any position at all.

It is genuinely miserable, particularly in the last few months when it tends to be at its worst. Here is why it happens, what actually helps, and one specific symptom that is worth taking seriously rather than assuming is just reflux.

Why heartburn in pregnancy is so common

Estimates vary, but somewhere between forty and eighty per cent of women experience it at some point in pregnancy. It is one of the most common complaints there is, and yet it is rarely discussed with any real practical detail.

Part of the problem is that it gets bundled in with the general expectation of discomfort. You are pregnant, so of course you are uncomfortable. But heartburn affects sleep, and sleep affects everything else, so it is worth addressing properly rather than enduring.

What is actually happening

Two things, working together.

Progesterone relaxes smooth muscle. This is genuinely useful in pregnancy, since it keeps your uterus from contracting. But it does not act selectively. It also relaxes the lower oesophageal sphincter, the ring of muscle at the top of your stomach that normally keeps stomach contents where they belong. When that valve is more relaxed than usual, acid travels upwards.

Progesterone also slows the rate at which your stomach empties, so food sits there longer, giving it more time and opportunity to reflux.

Your growing uterus presses upward. As your baby grows, everything above gets compressed. Your stomach has less room, sits higher, and is under more physical pressure, which pushes contents towards a valve that is already less competent than usual.

So it is a mechanical problem and a hormonal one at once, which is exactly why it worsens as pregnancy progresses.

When it usually starts, and whether it eases

Honestly, the timeline is not especially encouraging, but knowing it helps you plan.

It can begin at any point, and some women experience it from the first trimester, driven by progesterone before there is any real bump. More commonly it appears in the second trimester and worsens through the third.

It typically peaks in the third trimester, when the mechanical pressure is greatest. Many women find the last six to eight weeks are the hardest.

Some women get relief when the baby drops lower into the pelvis in the final weeks, which takes some pressure off the stomach. Others find no such reprieve.

The genuinely good news is that it resolves almost immediately after birth, since both the progesterone and the pressure disappear at once. This is one of the few pregnancy complaints with a genuinely clean ending.

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What genuinely helps at mealtimes

The mechanical changes are where most of the improvement comes from, and they cost nothing.

Eat smaller amounts more often. This is the single most effective change. A large meal distends a stomach that already has no room and increases pressure against a relaxed valve. Five or six smaller meals across the day works considerably better than three substantial ones.

Eat slowly. Rushing means swallowing more air and arriving at fullness before you have noticed. Putting your cutlery down between mouthfuls sounds fussy but genuinely helps.

Stay upright for two to three hours afterwards. Lying down or reclining removes gravity from the equation entirely. If you need to rest, do it propped up rather than flat.

Do not eat within about three hours of bed. This is the one that most improves nights. It is inconvenient, particularly if you are hungry in the evening, but shifting your main meal earlier and having something small rather than substantial later makes a real difference.

Drink between meals rather than with them. Fluid alongside food adds volume to an already crowded stomach. Sip through the day instead.

Loosen your waistband. Anything pressing on your abdomen adds to the pressure. Maternity clothing with a soft over-bump panel is worth it for this reason alone.

Chewing gum after meals stimulates saliva, which is alkaline and helps neutralise acid. A small thing with a reasonable evidence base.

Trigger foods, and why the standard list may not be yours

You will find a standard list everywhere: citrus, tomatoes, spicy food, fried food, chocolate, caffeine, fizzy drinks, mint.

Those are common triggers, and they are worth knowing. But here is the more useful point: your triggers may not match the list at all, and cutting all of them pre-emptively narrows your diet considerably at a time when eating well matters.

A more sensible approach is to notice your own pattern. Keep a rough note for a week or two of what you ate and when the burning was worst. Most women find two or three specific culprits rather than the whole list, and knowing yours means you can eat everything else freely.

Some women find mint helps, despite it appearing on trigger lists, since it relaxes the valve for some and soothes for others. This is exactly why individual observation beats a generic list.

What is worth being cautious with regardless is very large, very fatty meals, since fat slows stomach emptying further, and eating late.

If digestion generally has been sluggish, our article on gut health covers the wider picture, and steady blood sugar helps too, since erratic eating tends to mean larger meals when you finally do eat.

Sleeping without the burn

Nights are usually the worst of it, and a few things genuinely change that.

Prop yourself up. Not just extra pillows under your head, which tends to bend you at the neck and does little. Raise the whole upper half of your body, either with a wedge pillow or by putting something under the legs at the head of the bed to tilt the whole mattress. Gravity does the work.

Sleep on your left side. This has a genuine anatomical basis: your stomach sits to the left, and lying on that side keeps the junction with your oesophagus above the level of the stomach contents. Lying on the right does the opposite. Conveniently, left side sleeping is also recommended in later pregnancy for blood flow, so it serves two purposes.

Time your last meal. Three hours before lying down, as above. This matters more than almost anything else for night symptoms.

Have something small to hand in case you wake, since an empty stomach can sometimes make it worse. A few plain crackers or a small glass of milk.

Accept that a pregnancy pillow is worth the money if you are struggling. Supporting the bump and keeping you on your side, propped up, makes the whole arrangement more sustainable.

What is safe to take

There are effective options, and you do not have to simply endure this.

Antacids and alginates are commonly used in pregnancy, and several are considered suitable. If those are not enough, there are further options your GP or midwife can prescribe, and these are used routinely in pregnancy where symptoms are significant.

Please speak to your pharmacist, GP or midwife rather than taking anything you happen to have in the cupboard or that a friend recommends. Pharmacists in particular are genuinely helpful for this and you do not need an appointment.

One practical note: if you are taking iron supplements, be aware that antacids interfere with iron absorption, so leave a gap of a couple of hours between them.

When heartburn is not heartburn

This section matters more than anything else in this article, so please do read it.

Pain under your ribs on the right side, or in the upper right of your abdomen, is not typical heartburn and should always be checked.

In later pregnancy, particularly from around twenty weeks onwards, this kind of pain can be a sign of pre-eclampsia, a serious condition affecting the placenta and your blood pressure. The pain is often described as being under the ribs, sometimes mistaken for indigestion or heartburn, and it is a symptom that is very frequently dismissed by women who assume it is just reflux.

Contact your maternity team or triage immediately, the same day, if you have:

  • Pain under your ribs, particularly on the right side
  • A severe or persistent headache that does not settle
  • Visual disturbances, flashing lights, blurred vision or spots
  • Sudden swelling of your face, hands or feet
  • Feeling generally unwell or unusually anxious, alongside any of the above
  • Vomiting in later pregnancy that is new

You do not need several of these. Any one of them warrants a call, and pain under the ribs alongside a headache or visual changes warrants an urgent one.

Please do not worry about wasting anyone’s time. Maternity triage would far rather assess you and find nothing than miss pre-eclampsia, which can develop quickly and is why blood pressure and urine are checked at every appointment.

Ordinary heartburn is a burning sensation behind the breastbone, often rising towards the throat, usually related to eating or lying down, and typically relieved by antacids. Pain that sits under the ribs, does not relate to meals, and is not relieved by antacids is a different thing and needs assessing.

What to hold onto

Heartburn in pregnancy is common, genuinely miserable, and more manageable than it feels at two in the morning.

Smaller meals more often, nothing within three hours of bed, upright after eating, propped up and on your left side at night, and a conversation with your pharmacist about what is safe to take. Notice your own triggers rather than cutting everything on a generic list.

And know the difference between the burning you can manage and the pain under your ribs that needs a phone call. That distinction is the most important thing in this article.

It ends the day your baby arrives, which is not much consolation at three in the morning but is at least genuinely true.

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. Contact your maternity team or triage the same day if you have pain under your ribs, particularly on the right, a severe or persistent headache, visual disturbances, sudden swelling of your face or hands, or new vomiting in later pregnancy, as these can indicate pre-eclampsia and need urgent assessment. Please check any medication, including over-the-counter antacids, with your pharmacist, GP or midwife before taking it in pregnancy.

A gentle note

If you would love practical support feeling more comfortable through your pregnancy, I am here. I offer warm, one-to-one pregnancy coaching alongside your midwifery care.

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Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.