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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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Seed Cycling: A Gentle Foundation for Hormone Health

What it actually is, what the research does and does not show, and a gentle way to try it.

By Brydee Thomas31 July 20264 min read

A close-up of mixed pumpkin, sunflower, sesame and flax seeds.

If you have spent any time in the world of natural hormone health, you have probably come across seed cycling. And if you have wondered whether it is worth the fuss, or felt vaguely confused about which seeds go where and when, this one is for you.

Seed cycling is, at heart, one of the gentlest and most approachable things you can do for your hormones. It is affordable. It uses ingredients from any supermarket. It asks nothing of you but a spoonful of seeds a day. And while it is not a magic fix, and I will always be honest with you about that, it can be a genuinely lovely foundation habit, and a beautiful place to begin.

What seed cycling actually is

So let’s start with what it actually is. Seed cycling means eating particular seeds during each half of your menstrual cycle, to gently support the natural rise and fall of your hormones. In the first half of your cycle, from the first day of your period through to around day fourteen, you have a tablespoon each of ground flaxseed and pumpkin seeds daily. Then in the second half, from roughly day fifteen until your next period, you switch to a tablespoon each of ground sesame and sunflower seeds. If your cycle is irregular and those dates feel meaningless, you can simply do fourteen days of the first pair, then fourteen days of the second, and carry on from there.

The honest truth about what it can do

Now, the honest part, because you deserve it. Seed cycling is not a cure for hormone imbalance, or PCOS, or any medical condition, and the research behind it is still fairly limited. It is best thought of as a supportive daily habit rather than a treatment. But here is why it is still so worth knowing about: the seeds themselves are genuinely nourishing, and the real benefit may be less about any single magic mechanism and more about the lovely consistency the habit builds into your week.

What each seed brings

Each seed brings something worth having. Flaxseeds are rich in lignans and omega-3s, and their fibre helps your body process and clear used hormones. Pumpkin seeds are full of magnesium and zinc, both of which matter for hormone and reproductive health. Sesame seeds offer more lignans along with zinc and calcium, and are wonderfully easy to use as tahini. And sunflower seeds bring vitamin E, an antioxidant that supports your cells. Across a whole month, these four quietly add healthy fats, fibre, magnesium, zinc, vitamin E and those helpful lignans to your diet, all small building blocks for hormonal wellbeing.

Your hormones are shaped by so much more than any single food.

Why the timing works this way

The reason for the timing comes down to how your hormones move through the month. In the first half of your cycle, oestrogen rises to build up the uterine lining. Around the middle, ovulation happens. Then in the second half, progesterone takes the lead. The first-half seeds, flax and pumpkin, are chosen to support that oestrogen-led phase, and the second-half seeds, sesame and sunflower, to support the progesterone-led one. Whether the timing is doing something precise, or simply giving you a steady stream of good nutrition, the effect is the same: your body is better nourished than it was before.

A bowl of porridge topped with pumpkin seeds and mango.

How to actually fit it in

The real secret to seed cycling, though, is making it so easy that you barely have to think about it. Stir your seeds into porridge or overnight oats or yoghurt, where they all but disappear. Blend them into a smoothie, which is honestly the simplest option of all on a rushed morning. Scatter them over salads, soups, roasted vegetables or avocado toast if you lean savoury. Or roll them into little energy balls with oats, dates and nut butter, and keep a batch in the fridge.

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Always grind your flaxseed, because whole flax tends to sail straight through undigested, and keep your seeds in the fridge or freezer so their delicate oils stay fresh.

A gentle reminder

Here is the gentle truth to hold onto through all of it. Your hormones are shaped by so much more than any single food, by your sleep, your stress, your blood sugar, your movement, and the whole pace of your life. Seed cycling is not about controlling your body into submission. It is about listening to it, and offering it a little steady, consistent care. So start small. Keep the seeds where you will see them. Notice how you feel over the weeks, without any judgement or scorekeeping. Because your body has never needed you to be perfect. It just needs you to be consistent, and kind.

A gentle note

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. Please use caution with seed allergies, and check with your GP or a qualified practitioner if you are pregnant, breastfeeding, on medication, or managing a diagnosed hormonal condition.

If you are ready to understand your hormones and feel more like yourself again, I would love to help. I offer warm, personalised hormone and cycle coaching to help you find your balance.

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Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.