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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

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Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

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Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

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Brydee & Baby Hallie

I found out I was pregnant the day after Valentine's Day. I am very much a planner, and I knew this journey was going to ask me to surrender control in ways I wasn't entirely comfortable with. So I prepared. I found our hypnobirthing teacher Mollie, our incredible doula Jen, and together with our midwife team, I worked towards the birth I wanted a totally unmedicated home birth.

At 40 plus 1, my waters broke in the early hours of a Saturday morning. Pete and I spent the day walking the dog, watching TV, eating a very spicy curry, and keeping the oxytocin flowing. By Sunday night, still waiting, we went to bed early. At 11:50pm I woke up knowing. I was in labour.

I ran a bath and let Pete sleep for a little longer, breathing through each surge quietly in the dark. By 2am they were coming thick and fast. What I thought was every ten minutes was actually every three. Pete called Jen, who immediately said she was on her way. He called the midwife team straight after.

By 2:45am Jen and our midwife Penny had both walked through the door at exactly the same time. There was something so reassuring about that moment. Suddenly the room felt full of the right people. Jen took Pete into the kitchen to fill the pool while Penny checked my vitals. Pete, being completely and utterly Pete, had already put on the light projector, the fairy lights, and my playlist. Walking into that kitchen genuinely took my breath away. It was calm, it was beautiful, and it was exactly what I had imagined.

Getting into the pool was extraordinary. The water took every bit of pressure off my back and I felt myself sink into it completely. No pain relief. No gas and air. Just my breath, the warm water, and Pete’s voice beside me steady, calm, and constant. Every time I felt myself losing hold he brought me back. In for four, out for more. Over and over. I always thought hypnobirthing was something I was doing for myself. Watching Pete that night, I realised it had prepared him just as much as it had prepared me.

For five hours I worked through each surge in that pool, going completely into myself. I barely spoke. I just breathed and trusted my body to do what it knew how to do. And then, after five hours, came the most overwhelming, primal, unstoppable feeling the urge to push. It just took over. I didn’t decide to push. My body simply did it.

After two hours of pushing, Penny noticed the baby’s heartbeat was beginning to rise. She suggested we get out of the pool for an examination to see exactly where the baby was. I won’t lie, getting out of that water was the last thing I wanted to do. But Pete and Jen both felt it was the right call and I trusted them completely.

We moved into the living room and I got up onto the sofa for the examination. And there it was the news we needed. The baby’s head was right there. We were so close. What followed were around fifteen minutes of guided pushing on our sofa, Penny gently encouraging me, Pete’s hand never leaving mine, Jen quietly holding the space around us. And then, in our living room, on our sofa, in our home. Our baby arrived.

The moment Pete looked up at me and announced we had a girl is something I will carry with me forever. Our Hallie. Born at home, on our sofa, completely unmedicated. Not even gas and air.

I consider myself deeply lucky, but I also know that luck had very little to do with it. I trusted my body, I trusted my team, and I trusted the process. Birth doesn’t have to be something you simply endure. With the right preparation and the right people beside you, it can be one of the most empowering, beautiful experiences of your entire life.

It’s exactly why I do what I do.

Emily & Baby Nancy

My pregnancy with my second baby was a really smooth and straightforward journey, something I’m so grateful for. Everything went well throughout, and we were so excited when we found out we were expecting a baby girl.

During my pregnancy, Brydee was always there whenever I needed her — whether it was to talk through my plans, share my thoughts, or ease my worries. She really helped me stay as calm and relaxed as possible during what could have felt like a daunting time, and I’ll always be so thankful for that support.

Towards the end of my pregnancy, some of my later scans showed that she was measuring quite big, right up in the 100th centile. Because of this, I was advised about my options and the possible risks that could come with having a larger baby. I was given the choice of being induced or having a C-section, but I decided I wanted to wait as long as possible to see if our little girl would arrive in her own time.

She was due on the 24th of March, and I had an induction booked for the 21st of March just in case.

Then on the 20th of March, things started to happen on their own. I began having contractions that gradually became stronger and closer together. Me and my partner called triage, and they advised us to come into the maternity ward at Musgrove. When we arrived at around 4pm, everything started moving quite quickly. Within about 20 minutes we were in a labour room, and I was told I was already 5cm dilated.

My contractions were definitely ramping up by this point, but I tried to stay calm and focused on my breathing. I had my favourite music playing in the background and the lights dimmed, which helped create the calmest and most relaxed environment possible.

Labour progressed quite quickly after that. By around 10pm, I was 8cm dilated. I had access to a birthing pool in my labour suite, and I spent some time in there, which really helped ease the contractions and kept me feeling as calm and relaxed as I could.

Around 1am, I was told I had reached 10cm and it was nearly time to push. I used gas and air to manage the pain, which helped me so much through those final stages.

When it was time, I began pushing during my contractions, and after around 27 minutes, at 1:51am on the 21st of March, our beautiful baby girl Nancy arrived.

She weighed a healthy 8lb 14oz, and we were completely in love the moment we saw her. Thankfully she was happy and healthy, and we were both doing well. After a few hours of soaking it all in, we were able to leave the hospital at 10am and head home to Nancy’s older brother to start our family as a four.

It was such a special and empowering experience that I’ll never forget.

Abby & Baby Francesca

Went into labour at 39+1 after a lovely pregnancy.

Woke up Saturday morning with a bit of back pain but thought nothing of it as I had been to a wedding the day before so thought I had over done it. Had a bath to try and relax my back muscles. Around 11 I realised I hadn’t felt baby moving all morning so called triage and we were invited in for monitoring. 30mins on the monitor and bubba hadn’t moved but everything else looked good, so the midwives got me to move around a bit and sure enough baby started moving, after another half an hour of monitoring we were all satisfied baby was okay and just having a relaxing morning. While I was on the monitors they picked up some tightenings but nothing more than standard Braxton hicks.

I was offered an exam after the monitoring which I agreed to and found out I was 1-2cm dilated so accepted a sweep at the same time. Midwives advised me to go home and get some rest and expect things to start happening in the next 24/36hrs.

On the 20min journey home I was in a bit of discomfort but put that down to the sweep and just being a bit uncomfortable in the car (Marcus’ dodgy driving!). Once we got home I couldn’t get comfy and the pain had stepped up a bit so after observing for 30/45 mins we made the decision to call triage and head back in.

I managed to walk up to the lift and get back up to triage with Marcus’ help where we were told baby was on her way and wasn’t hanging around and they would try to get us up to delivery ward between contractions. We made it to the delivery ward where I made use of the gas and air and had an injection of pethidine. Ideally I wanted a water birth but the pool was in use so that wasn’t an option.

At this point I had another exam where they confirmed I was 9 cm dilated and soon enough it was time to start pushing. Baby arrived with not long after and I was lucky enough to only receive some grazing and no tears. My total labour and delivery time, including placenta was 3.5hrs, not bad for a first time!

I was lucky to have a very straightforward pregnancy, delivery and recovery and have to thank Brydee for her support and guidance along the way! Let’s hope it goes as smoothly second time around!

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Hormone Balancing Tea: The Complete Guide

Which herbs actually do what, when to drink them, and what the evidence genuinely says.

By Brydee Thomas17 August 202612 min read

Loose herbal tea leaves and dried botanicals arranged beside a glass cup.

Search “hormone balancing tea” and you will find hundreds of blends promising to fix your cycle, clear your skin and settle your moods. Some of those herbs genuinely have research behind them. Others have centuries of traditional use but very little modern evidence. And a few carry cautions that rarely make it onto the packaging.

So let’s go properly through it. Which herbs actually do what, when in your cycle to drink them, what the evidence genuinely says, and where tea can realistically help versus where it cannot.

I want to be honest with you from the start: no tea will correct a significant hormonal imbalance on its own. If your cycles have stopped, you suspect PCOS or endometriosis, or something has changed markedly, that needs proper investigation, not a herbal blend. But as a gentle, daily, supportive habit alongside good food, sleep and stress care, the right herbs genuinely can help. That is the honest frame this guide works within.

What “hormone balancing” actually means

This phrase gets used so loosely that it has almost stopped meaning anything. Your hormones are not a set of scales that tip in and out of balance. They are a constantly shifting conversation between your brain, your ovaries, your thyroid, your adrenals and your gut, changing daily across your cycle exactly as they are supposed to.

So when we talk about herbs supporting hormone balance, we are really talking about a few specific mechanisms: herbs that influence how much of a hormone your body produces, herbs that support how efficiently your liver and gut clear used hormones, herbs that lower the stress hormones which disrupt everything else, and herbs that are simply so mineral-rich that they support the raw materials your endocrine system needs. Different herbs work in genuinely different ways, which is exactly why the blend you choose matters.

It is worth understanding the cascade briefly, because it explains why herbs act where they do. Your hypothalamus releases GnRH in a pulsing rhythm, which signals your pituitary gland to release FSH and LH. Those in turn drive your ovaries to produce oestrogen and progesterone across the month. Once those hormones have done their job, your liver breaks them down and your gut clears them out. Disruption can happen at any point along that chain, at the brain, at the ovaries, at the liver, or in the gut, and different herbs act at different points. Vitex works at the pituitary. Milk thistle and dandelion work at the liver. Spearmint acts on androgen levels. Nettle simply supplies minerals the whole system depends on. Knowing which link in the chain you are trying to support is far more useful than reaching for a blend labelled “hormone balance” and hoping.

There is also the gut side, which rarely gets mentioned in tea discussions. A group of gut bacteria known collectively as the estrobolome influences how much used oestrogen gets escorted out of the body versus reabsorbed back into circulation. When digestion is sluggish or the microbiome is disrupted, used hormones can recirculate rather than clear. This is why gut health and hormone health are so tightly linked, and why herbs that support digestion have a genuine, if indirect, role in the hormonal picture.

The herbs with the strongest evidence

These are the ones where the research is genuinely meaningful, not just traditional.

  • Spearmint. The standout. Spearmint has two randomised controlled trials behind it showing reduced free testosterone in women with PCOS, which is why it is so widely recommended for androgen-related symptoms like hormonal acne and unwanted hair growth. Worth noting: spearmint and peppermint are different plants with different effects, so it must be spearmint specifically. Around two cups daily is the amount used in studies, and it takes at least a month of consistent use to see a shift.
  • Chaste tree berry (Vitex). The most researched herb for PMS specifically. It acts on the pituitary gland to influence prolactin, and there is reasonable evidence for reducing PMS symptoms including breast tenderness, low mood and irritability. It is genuinely potent, which is also why it needs care: avoid on hormonal contraception, and check with a practitioner if you are trying to conceive or on any hormonal medication.
  • Green tea. Good evidence for insulin sensitivity and metabolic support, which matters because blood sugar and insulin sit underneath so much of hormonal health, particularly in PCOS. It contains caffeine, so it suits mornings rather than evenings.
Fresh spearmint leaves, the most researched herb for hormone support.

The herbs with strong traditional use

These have long, respected histories and some supportive research, though the evidence base is thinner than the group above.

  • Red raspberry leaf. The classic women’s tonic, genuinely rich in magnesium, iron, potassium and B vitamins. Its reputation for hormone support comes largely from this nutrient density plus its traditional use in toning uterine muscle. Often reached for in the week or two before a period to ease cramping. Note that it is usually recommended only from the second trimester onwards in pregnancy, so check with your midwife.
  • Nettle leaf. Deeply mineralising, particularly iron, magnesium and calcium. It does not act directly on hormones, but it supplies the building blocks your endocrine system runs on, which is why it appears in so many blends as a nourishing base. Worth checking first if you take anticoagulants such as warfarin, as it is high in vitamin K.
  • Red clover. High in isoflavones, plant compounds that gently mimic oestrogen. Traditionally used around perimenopause and where oestrogen feels low. That same phytoestrogen activity means it is worth checking with your GP if you have a hormone-sensitive condition.
  • Dandelion root. Supports the liver, which is where your body processes and prepares used oestrogen for clearance. The roasted root makes a lovely coffee-style brew, and it is a gentle, sensible addition in the second half of the cycle.
  • Milk thistle. Its compound silymarin supports liver function, working on the same oestrogen-clearance side of the picture as dandelion.
  • Ashwagandha. One of the most researched adaptogens for lowering cortisol. Since chronically high cortisol disrupts ovulation and the whole hormonal cascade, calming your stress response is genuinely hormonal work. Check first if pregnant, breastfeeding, on thyroid medication or with a hormone-sensitive condition.

Matching herbs to what you are actually experiencing

Most people arrive at this topic with a specific symptom rather than a general wish for balance, so it helps to work backwards from what is actually bothering you.

If your main issue is hormonal acne or unwanted hair growth, these are androgen-related, and spearmint has the most direct evidence. Give it two cups daily for at least eight to twelve weeks before judging it. Green tea alongside supports the insulin side, which often drives androgens upward in the first place.

If your main issue is PMS, breast tenderness or premenstrual low mood, chaste tree berry has the strongest research base. It is typically taken daily across the whole cycle rather than just the second half, and most studies ran for three cycles before measuring results, so patience is genuinely required.

If your main issue is painful periods, red raspberry leaf traditionally and ginger with reasonable evidence behind it. Ginger in particular has studies suggesting it performs comparably to common over-the-counter pain relief for period pain when taken in the first few days of bleeding.

If your main issue is heavy periods and exhaustion, this is often an iron picture rather than purely hormonal, and nettle earns its place here as a genuinely mineral-dense daily infusion. Worth asking your GP for a ferritin test rather than just a full blood count, since ferritin shows your iron stores rather than just what is circulating.

If your main issue is stress, wired-and-tired energy or poor sleep, ashwagandha for the cortisol side, and chamomile, lemon balm or passionflower in the evening. Since cortisol disrupts the entire hormonal cascade upstream, calming your stress response often does more for your cycle than any herb aimed at the cycle directly.

If your main issue is bloating or sluggish digestion around your period, dandelion, peppermint and fennel. And do consider that hormonal symptoms which worsen when digestion is poor often improve when digestion improves, via that estrobolome connection.

When to drink what across your cycle

This is where most generic advice falls down, because your needs genuinely change across the month.

First half of your cycle, days one to fourteen. Oestrogen is rising and rebuilding. Nettle is especially valuable around your period for replenishing iron lost through bleeding. Spearmint suits this phase well, and green tea works nicely in the mornings for steady energy as your energy naturally lifts.

Around ovulation. Your liver is processing a peak in oestrogen, so liver-supportive herbs like dandelion and milk thistle earn their place here.

Second half of your cycle, days fifteen to twenty-eight. This is when PMS symptoms appear and when most women want support. Chaste tree berry is traditionally associated with this phase. Red raspberry leaf helps with cramping as your period approaches. And calming herbs, chamomile, lemon balm, ashwagandha, matter more now because the luteal phase tends to bring lower mood, poorer sleep and more sensitivity.

Three blends worth making

Measured in simple parts, where one part is roughly a teaspoon. Mix a jar, then use one to one and a half teaspoons per cup, steeped covered for six to eight minutes.

The daily hormone tonic. Two parts spearmint, one part red raspberry leaf, one part nettle, half a part rose. A nourishing, mineral-rich everyday base that suits the whole month.

The luteal support blend. Two parts red raspberry leaf, one part chamomile, one part lemon balm, half a part dandelion root. For the second half of your cycle, when cramping, low mood and poor sleep tend to arrive together.

The liver and clearance blend. Two parts dandelion root, one part milk thistle, one part nettle, half a part peppermint for flavour. Simmer this one for ten minutes rather than steeping, since roots need more coaxing. Lovely around ovulation and through the luteal phase.

What tea genuinely cannot do

I would rather be straight with you than sell you something. Herbal tea will not restore an absent period, correct diagnosed PCOS or endometriosis, replace thyroid medication, or fix a significant hormonal condition. The concentrations in a cup of tea are modest compared with the herbal tinctures and supplements used in most clinical studies, which means tea is a supportive daily habit rather than a treatment.

What tea does well is this: it adds minerals, it supports your liver gently, it calms your nervous system, and, perhaps most valuably, it creates a small daily ritual of caring for yourself. That last one matters more than it sounds. Consistency in the basics, food, sleep, stress, movement, is what genuinely shifts hormonal health, and a daily cup can be the anchor that holds the rest together.

A few practical notes

Give it time. Any herb needs at least one full cycle, ideally two or three, before you can judge whether it helps. Hormonal shifts are slow, and most of the clinical studies behind these herbs ran for three months or more. If you switch every fortnight because nothing has happened, you will never find out what works for you.

Start simple. One or two herbs rather than a blend of twelve, so you can actually attribute any change to something specific. Commercial blends often contain a dozen ingredients at doses too low to do much individually, which makes them pleasant to drink but hard to learn from.

Brew it properly. Leaves and flowers want five to eight minutes in just-boiled water, covered so the aromatic oils stay in the cup rather than drifting off in the steam. Roots, berries and bark need simmering for ten to fifteen minutes to draw out their compounds properly. A longer steep, even several hours for something like nettle, extracts considerably more minerals.

Buy well and store well. Loose leaf from a reputable supplier tends to be fresher and more potent than supermarket teabags, where you often cannot tell what proportion of what you are getting. Keep herbs in airtight jars away from light and heat, and label them with the date.

Track how you feel. Note your energy, mood, sleep, skin and cycle length across the months you are trying something. Without that, you are relying on memory, and memory is unreliable across a four-week cycle.

Check the cautions genuinely. The gentle, nourishing herbs like nettle and raspberry leaf suit most people. The more active ones warrant a real conversation with your GP or a qualified herbalist: vitex if you are on hormonal contraception, trying to conceive or on fertility treatment; red clover and ashwagandha if you have a hormone-sensitive condition; liquorice if you have high blood pressure, since it can raise it further and is not suited to regular long-term use; nettle if you take anticoagulants such as warfarin. And St John’s Wort, which appears in some mood-focused blends, interacts seriously with antidepressants and reduces the effectiveness of the contraceptive pill.

Remember it is one part of the picture. Herbs work alongside the foundations, not instead of them. Steady blood sugar, seven to nine hours of sleep, gentle movement and managing your stress load will always do more for your hormones than any tea. Think of the cup as the ritual that anchors the rest, rather than the intervention itself.

Where to start

If you take one thing from this guide, let it be this: pick one herb that matches what you actually need, drink it consistently for a couple of cycles, and pay attention to how you feel. That will teach you far more than any blend of a dozen herbs ever could.

A gentle note

This article is for gentle, supportive education and is not medical advice. Herbal teas are not a treatment for any condition and do not replace prescribed medication. If your cycles are absent, very irregular, or something has changed noticeably, please speak to your GP.

If you would love personalised guidance on which herbs genuinely suit your body and your cycle, I would love to help. I offer warm, one-to-one hormone and cycle coaching, built around your real life.

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Brydee Thomas, founder of Radiant Bloom

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Brydee Thomas

Holistic health coach and founder of Radiant Bloom, supporting women through trying to conceive, pregnancy and the postpartum months. Evidence-based guidance, no programmes and no generic plans.